Being able to know if someone is mutually interested in you before you message is a huge win - we get it. That's why we love Meet Me (the place where you swipe!). You'll swipe and like profiles, creating what we call Mutual Matches. Then you're free to message as much as you'd like with that match!
Sending a Mutual Match a Message
You get matches by using Meet Me, and by looking at your Discover page to see who's online or by searching or checking out My Matches, or by checking out who is Interested in You but I think you get it, there are endless ways to match on POF.
- We keep your Mutual Matches in your inbox so that you can more easily send them a message. While you are waiting for them to reply, you can see if they have viewed the message by going to your sent message folder. If they reply back, you'll see the message in the Conversations area.