Whether you both say Yes in Meet Me, you’re matched up because of interests, or you stumble on a stunning profile, the first step in any relationship is saying hello.

1. While looking through their profile, select Message or Quick Message.
2. Write out a clever greeting, unique compliment, or interesting question and send it their way!

Of course, you can also message members found through Live!.

If the conversation goes quiet, we’ll clear the message from your inbox after a few weeks, just to keep things tidy.

Here are a few ways you can send a message: 

You can send a Quick Message on the Desktop web by going to a users profile : 

You can also use the Send Message option while using the app: 

Priority Message

Want your message to stand out?  Get your message to the top of their inbox by sending a Priority Message!   Each Priority message you send uses 1 token.

Priority Messages will stay at the top of their inbox until it's read (or for 29 days - whatever comes first), increasing your chances of getting into a conversation.

• If you want to send a Priority Message, compose a message and change the "send as priority" to ON before you hit "Send Message"
• If you want to send a standard message (no token required), just keep it marked as OFF.

Here is an example of what it you should look like if you are sending a priority message:

Don't have any tokens yet?  Learn more about Buying Tokens here.